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jeudi 27 septembre 2018

Putting Yourself Together After The Moment Of Despair

By Sharon Richardson


Living means you also have to face those sufferings and challenges in life. However, some trials can seriously damage the person emotionally. For example, you lost a person that is very close to your heart. That incident would emotionally scar you and lead you to desolation. When severe loneliness attacks you, battling that is definitely hard. However, hope can still be found after waking up from a morning of despair.

Tragedies could really affect the life of person. It is somehow like a huge storm suddenly changing everything around your and leaving you broken into pieces. As a result, fixing those broken pieces is difficult and it would take long for it to be fully recovered. Experiencing some tragic incidents has emotional impacts to people.

For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.

Aside from that, your environment can also affect you. Discrimination and bullying are also happening nowadays that some humans lose their motivation to mingle with others. If this will keep on continue, more people will shut themselves down from the word.

Sometimes comforting words from people may not help you to become even better. Probably you are not even listening to what they were saying at you. Most likely because you feel that they do not understand anything at all for they have not experienced what you were experiencing at the moment. You tend to avoid others and you cannot be blamed for it. However, you still need to help yourself. You cannot just stay inside your room forever and let yourself being devoured by the despair haunting you. Doing nothing will just make your situation even worse.

Mostly others would tell you that distractions are effective so you may not think on your problems and be disheartened about it. However, that method is just like escaping from reality. You are not confronting your battle, making you just a coward. Stop pretending you actually are fine.

Losing someone so significant to you feels like something was also taken from you. But some humans do not want to cry or just pretend that nothing happens. That procedure is definitely wrong. Grieving is okay but not always. You also must accept that sadness in you and let it out. Remember that humans are not robot. Therefore you cannot just hold back that feeling and pretend to be numb.

Crying forever will not really help. That is why, you also need to stop and think about what is good for yourself. Moving on could absolutely take you long. Nevertheless, you should not hurry yourself with that process like getting another partner to heal fast. No. Take things slowly so you could figure out if your heart is no longer in pain, Once, it happens you may start again.

Putting yourself back is hard after facing some trials. But always remain positive. In darkness, there is always light ahead of it.




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